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Sunday, November 30, 2008

Forgive & Forget

Forgive and forget, let go and lighten your load. A grudge can be a heavy weight to bear.Here's are several tips i wanna share with you guys on How to forgive..Lets Check it out!!!

Think about what happened.


Acknowledge all of your feelins. There is often anger lurking behind any hurt or sadness you might feel

Express your feelings - write them out, talk to a friend or simply allow yourself to feel what you feel.

Accept responsibility for your own emotions. Although you were wronged and your emotions may be justified, it is still up to you to decide when you're ready to stop feeling angry or upset.

Talk to the other person about the behavior that upset you and how it made you feel. The odds are that you won't feel truly ready to forgive until you know this person has heard and understood your perspective.


Try to understand the other person's perspective, even if you don't really agree with it.

Rebuild trust in the relationship. Make agreements about acceptable future behavior whenever appropriate.

Make the decision to forgive, and communicate your forgiveness to the other person. Once you've done this, make every effort to move on and let it go completely.

Warning:Wait until you are truly ready to forgive. Respect your feelings and take all the time you need.

*Mission Incomplete...still..

"Forgiveness is God's invention for coming to terms with a world in which, despite their best intentions, people are unfair to each other and hurt each other deeply. He began by forgiving us. And he invites us all to forgive each other."

33 comments:

CAHAYA said...

forgiveness is so much to ask. and it involves 2 persons or more.

Sorry is the hardest thing to say. We have to say it with whole hearted and of course 'menyesal'. And again, it involves 2 persons or more.

To forgive and to forget just words to ease some pain, but not all. We may say we forgive and forget whatever happen, but, is it true? Do we really forget? Are we that tough?

Hmm. One can only hope.

Josh said...

Yah Axim. Forgive and forget.

But better still, forgive and ACCEPT. That's even more difficult but very rewarding in the end.

Unknown said...

oooh i love the warning sign in the end. absolutely agree with that statement :D

ita.itu said...

lama dah x pg puduraya..lemas ek sana..asap kepul..eh air epal tu mcm pekat lekat je kan..sdp nmpknye

^aNgRiAni^ said...

waaa...nak kemana tu ?

macam jauh jer :D

hehehehehehe

rizal kamaruzaman said...

kata2 di gambar dlm bntuk makanan.. lapor!! :P

ixora said...

nk maafkan mmg senang
tp nk melupakan itu sgt payah...

kannnnssss...?

Inah said...

sometimes we have to think back..who are we to judge a person and to have grudge..

we are all human being..it's normal to make a mistake and it's normal to forgive and forget..

happy working :)

cik ijau said...

kenapa gambar n ayat tu mcm xdpt nak dikaitkan?
nmpk mknn jerrr suma ayat tu jadi cam blur.....adoi!!! ;)

mummysyafie said...

selalu nya mmg susah nak 100% maaf kat orang tu..mulut mmg kater dah maaf..tapi hati, tuhan je tahu

arsaili said...

salam..banyaknya cholestrol

artisticklytouch said...

i always forgive but i would never forget...this is for future reference, in other words, mahu belajar dari kesilapan.

same i asked from others

izal said...

ape yg ko ngomel sorang2 ni bro...kahkahkah....

MOLY said...

:)

pearl'E.J said...

tu nampak mcm ayaq amra asam boi ajaa... pi kat uncle william lagik ker??

Zumie said...

hermm kenapa gambar makanan tapi ayat sedih jek..

sabar naaa...

eh sedapnye airrr

+ mika + said...

~ anda telah ditag...silalah jawab yer... =)

Zoulkieflie said...

saya pernah mengalaminya..hehe..for me,just think positively..nobody perfect in this world..dan terpulanglah bagaimana kita hendak mengatasinya..:)

amirul usheruff dzulkarnain said...

x penah aku nenok pun sign board puduraya secantik itu,,

Anonymous said...

i like this sentence..If you hate someone you still care about that person..can i paste it at my blog?-asking permission.. =)

Miss Reen said...

still till today..there are few ppl that i can't forgive..

and thats me..
hard to forgive & never forget

Anonymous said...

udah lama gue tak bukak blog mu..nasib baik baca entri ni..leh amik pedoman sket..bukan apa,sebab aku tgh hangin jer dgn some people kat tmpt keje aku..

13may said...

cantik gambaq :)

Wahidah said...

forgive and forget?? yeah biler melibatkan 2 person ni..mcm payah sket kn..tp bole dilakukan..yg pnting sincere dgn apa yg kiter buat n luahkan..

azizi said...

salam axim.
errrr ..gambar best2 ..tp penerangan sedih ... pelik2 ...
anyway, forgive, forget and accept.
all in one, redha.
.... a simple word, but it has one of the deepest meanings inside.

cheers. bro!

Wanpetunjuk said...

Bro...to forgive is not easy as to say sorry...

When we're deeply wounded, it became worst...

Just give sometimes to yourself, to think and to muhasabah...

But...forgiving is the most subtle attitude my dear bro...

* wait for ur sms last sunday nite to trigger me to share...what life is all about....

auntie fawwaz said...

4give n 4get,..

mmg senang lah untuk org yg buat
silap,..
untuk mangsa kesilapan,..???? nak forget???

tp manusia xleh hukum manusia laen,.
dats y, when u make mistake, straighten it up,
not just let go or let word do the role,..
life is not that easy..

Ted Baker said...

Forgiveness is the upmost noble thing to do.

Masy said...

senang utk ckp, susah nk buat. tp takpe.. pelan2 kayuh..

btw, byknye makan hehehe

Rush Murad said...

"....forgiven but not forgotten...." ring any bells??? :D

ginseng4desoul said...

How true... I've yet to find that strength tho...

Adam said...

hehehehe! chelsea kalah suda .... :P

hai axim ... lama tak kacau .. sihat ker??

lawat blog ni ... siongberantai.blogspot.com
comment2 ek? .. thanks! ;)

have a good day .. !

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